Question:
Dear Bridgett ~ I’ve finally found my soulmate – the man who was meant for me. He’s a Virgo and I’m a Libra. I would like to get married in August, but hesitate because of the two eclipses (August 1 and 16). What do you think? Is August a good month for us to wed? I don’t want any bad aspects to doom our marriage. We would like to be married by September. Please help! ~ Nina
Answer:
Bridgett responds ~ First of all, best wishes to you and your future husband, Nina! Secondly, don’t schedule the wedding on the 1st or 16th.
Days that look fortunate (and pretty fabulous!) are August 5th, 8th, 12th, 13th, 14th and 21st. Any of these days work well for both of you. I’m especially fond of the 12th, 13th and 14th. Relax and enjoy your very special day, Nina!
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Dear Bridgett ~ I don’t know why I’m writing you. I have a strange feeling that you can hear my voice now, and I don’t have to touch the keyboard to have my thoughts reach you. I need guidance, advice, and a light to find the path. I lost my way a few years ago and I seem to wander in the dark without direction, hope or even feeling alive. My mother died five years ago and part of me shut down. I keep falling apart. I know I’m hurting myself and the ones that love me. I fell in love but pushed away the one I loved. For four years, I’ve pulled back, afraid to let go and afraid of this big love. I’m afraid to love and afraid of everything. ~G
Answer:
Bridgett responds ~ G, I see so much in your chart: talent, depression, psychic gifts, amazing instincts, and last but not least, the skill to heal yourself and others. I also see that you’re in such a thick soup of sadness that you’re close to not asking for a lifeline. I’m glad you wrote. That indicates that you do want to feel better and redirect your personal power in a more satisfying direction.
You have talent as a writer. I don’t know if you’ve explored this yet, but you have a gift for dialogue. I think this is something for you to pursue. You are also depressed. If you aren’t currently taking an antidepressant, I suggest that you contact your doctor and discuss your feelings with him or her. Depression, like pain, is insidious. Once you sink to a deep level, you lose your way and don’t know how to return to the light. Antidepressants can greatly help you find the light. You need all the best tools in your toolbox right now because you’re exhausted emotionally and spiritually from struggling to survive. Call your doctor today. There are antidepressants that also address physical aches and pains that often accompany depression. If you are currently taking antidepressants, you need to let your doctor know that they’re not doing the job and ask for a more effective medication.
You suffered a profound blow when your mother died. You haven’t accepted or adapted to this. The very foundation you counted on has collapsed.
With medication, therapy and the expression of your considerable talent, you can feel more vital again. Get the medical boost you desperately need immediately. Then you’ll have the strength, focus and will to explore a fuller more rewarding life.
Pluto is forcing you to look at your life right now, in rather stark, harsh ways. You can’t escape it. You can’t even blink. Pluto is talking directly to you, ordering you to get outside help so that you can live your potential and experience joy. Don’t put this off, G. Even though you don’t believe it, you do deserve a full, happy life. It’s too soon to consider opening your bruised heart to love and relationships. First, you need to get help. Then you can reach out and embrace love without being afraid. You can do this.
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